Contrary to the belief, girls love it when their boyfriend talks dirty to them. Dirty words are a wonderful way of seduction and they can really help you to add spice to your sex life. With girls, sometimes guys get a little insecure in terms of dirty talking. Girls are the shyer and less expressive sex and guys don’t know how they will come across if they use dirty talk in bed. Well, you have to know this, a girl really enjoys dirty talk, if not more, then definitely as much as guys do.
So if you are a man looking to pleasure your girl and drive her crazy at the same time, this post is meant for you. For sex partners, dirty talking is an effective method of climaxing and reaching a whole new exciting level of satisfaction. Above everything else, if you are talking dirty with your girlfriend in bed, you are adding extra zing to your love life. If you still feel nervous talking dirty to your girlfriend you can simply as her if it would be okay with her. Sometime the simplest thing to do is ask. That way you will be making her comfortable as well as asking her to experiment sexually with you. Do you know what this is going to do for your sex life? It is going to work wonders! You two will feel closer than ever.
Let us look at what ‘dirty talk’ is essentially.
We can say that dirty talk is a part of sex play where you use your words to arouse your girlfriend; you need to be as descriptive and imaginative as possible for the best result. What you are doing by being descriptive about your sexual fantasies and demands is that you are getting your girl extremely excited and readying her to have an amazing time in the sack!
How can you talk dirty effectively?
Well, you can categorize dirty talk into the soft core dirty talk and the hard core one. Technically the way to use dirty talking effectively is, using soft core dirty words initially during foreplay and the really hard core lines when you are in the process of having some mind-blowing and pleasurable sex. This will help your girl visualize what is going on in bed and she will get too excited to hide her true feelings. You can also get your girl aroused before sex, using dirty phrases and words.
Please, do not try to fake dirty talk. What you say should come naturally to you and should not be something you picked off the internet. It will seem really weird and can backfire, so be careful.
Draw a few lines
When you are dirty talking with your girl make sure that lines are drawn. If there is something that you think your girl might not like, don’t say it. The idea is not to make your partner uncomfortable with your words. Don’t cross the limit no matter how much you may want to. Also remember, dirty talk is not disrespectful. It is a means of arousal. You need to be clear about your feelings for your girl before you go ahead and say whatever dirty things come to your mind.
Here are 50 examples of what you can say to your boyfriend in the sack and drive him crazy. If it is your first time trying to talk dirty, stick to the basics and slowly move on to the really dirty stuff!
1. Tell me all the dirty little things you do when you touch yourself, you naughty girl. Tell me everything, baby. Tell me how you play with yourself.
2. Do you like it when I touch myself here?
3. Lie back and shut up! I’m going to make you come until you can’t breathe.
4. Kiss me and lick every inch of me.
5. Come over here and let me ride you hard!
6. Pleasure me. Right now!
7. Use me as your toy all night long.
8. Touch yourself and let me watch you.
9. Do you want more? Take it!
10. Give me that ass, honey. I want to feel you in my mouth.
11. It drives me crazy when you look at me that way.
12. I’m going to do you right now, honey.
13. Well, how do you want me?
14. I’ll make you go crazy with love tonight
15. I always get what I want.
16. Okay, babe, you can have anything you want.
17. I love the way it sounds when we have sex. Hear it?
18. I want you to lick off all my juices.
19. Baby don’t stop! Oh my god, I love it when you do that!
20. I’m so horny; just let me feel you.
21. You need to go down on me, now
23. I’m your slave for the night. Tell me what you want.
24. You can have me any way you want
25. Get over here girl. And show me what you know!
26. I am going to make you come hard
27. I want you all over me
28. What a sexy body you have!
29. Do you like my body? Tell me what you see. Describe it to me.
30. You’re my lover. I adore what a naughty girl you are.
31. Babe, you have to follow all my rules tonight.
32. No stops this time. Let’s see how many times I can make you come.
33. Don’t you dare come until I say you can!
34. Maybe I should spank you – you’ve been very, very bad.
35. I want you to undress and wait for me in the bedroom.
36. Get down on your knees baby and let me do the magic
37. I own you tonight. Your body is mine.
38. Do you like it when I lick you there?
39. I can’t believe what you’re doing! Please do not stop!
40. I love pleasing you and the sounds of your pleasure drive me crazy.
41. Tonight is the night I will have crazy sex with you. Won’t stop the whole night
42. Make me say your name again and again!
43. Faster! Harder!
44. What a hot nasty woman you are.
45. I love how wet you get when I talk to you like this.
46. I love licking you. And I’m going to lick you clean.
47. I want to taste you.
48. I could spend hours between your legs, tasting you.
49. I want you. I want to make love with you. I want to enjoy sex with you.
50. Oh, baby, that was the best sex I’ve ever had. Thank you for that.