Marriage has always been considered to be the symbol of love. It is always so lovely to witness two people who are in love with each other getting married. As they confess about their love before family and friends, marriage seems to be the best thing that can happen to anyone. Apart from all the tensions that every marriage goes through, there is a funny side to it too. This article will help you see some of the funny things about getting married. Marriage is more than just meeting up of two souls, there will be number of other people too, who also are joint through this ceremony.
No matter how much you try to avoid confusion on the day of marriage, the day always shows up with its own share of problems. The day is filled with comedy of errors and keeps everyone on their toes to ensure a smooth wedding. Life after ‘I do’ comes with more surprises and happiness that will always ensure the strength of a marriage even when times are difficult. Marriage is the most important time of a person’s life and we always wish that everything should work out well on the most important day of our lives. But, still one cannot escape the funny side of the story that find its space in every marriage.
Mentioned below are some things that every couple cherish after getting married.
1. Hang Out:
The best thing about getting married is that you always have someone to hang out with. No matter where you are and what you do, you hubby is always going to be there for you to make sure that you are never alone. No more do you have to feel lonely if you are going to some place where you don’t know anyone. Marriage will make sure that you are never alone and that your husband is always around you and you around him.
2. Sharing Partner:
Finally, you are with someone with whom you can share your best moments. So many times, in your life there must have been moments where you wished someone special would have added to your happiness. Now, no longer do you have to long for that. Once you are married, you are with the person with whom you can share everything, your good and bad moments. When you share your good moments, the happiness is increased and when you share your bad moments, the sadness is decreased.
Usually, the best moments can be shared with anyone, but it is the worst moments when we need someone to hold us tightly and whisper in our ears that, ‘I’ll be there for you!’ When you have someone to hold you in your worst times, you feel blessed. Then you will not pay much attention to the little arguments that you have with each other.
3. Motivating Source:
We all hit rock bottom at least once in our lifetimes. How wonderful it would be to have someone in your life who could motivate you in tough times. Your spouse is going to be that person who will always stand beside you when everything else falls apart and will ensure that he/ she motivates you till you are able to stand on your own feet.
4. Decision Making:
One of the best things about getting married is that you don’t have to worry about taking a difficult decision alone. You will always have someone in your life with whom you can share and think about the decision that you have been planning to take for a long time. Marriage gives you the advantage of learning to be interdependent. Whenever you are stuck with any difficult situation where you find it difficult to come to any conclusion, you can just talk about it to your husband/ wife and the solution will follow. Marriage means involvement of two souls and so it is very important for you to involve your partner in any important decision that you need to take.
5. No Nervousness:
Have you felt nervous about going on a date? Now you don’t have to be nervous about anything. You will be with your partner and the feeling of hesitation and nervousness will have no control over you. If you plan to go out for a dinner, you no more have to think a lot about the way you should dress or where to take your partner out for the lunch or dinner. The most important thing that will matter then will be the moments that you share with them and the outward things will have no meaning.
6. Be What You Are:
In marriage, there are no hidden masks. You can be what you are with the person whom you love and have decided to spend the rest of your life with. You no longer have to pretend to be someone you are not. You can be natural and not think twice about the love that your partner has for you. Love goes beyond looks and good times. Couples who share love in a marriage are always sure of their partner’s love and know that they will be with them, ‘in sickness and in health, for better or for worse!’ There can be nothing better than knowing that your partner has accepted you and loves you as you are. When you know that the love that your partner has for you is not limited to only good things and that he/ she loves you and has accepted you even with your bad qualities, then you no more have to pretend. Instead, you can work on your weakness and try to be perfect for each other.
7. The Art of Compromise:
One of the main things that you learn when you get married is the art of compromise. Living with another person and getting accustomed to their way of living can be both funny and irritating at times. But, as you spend the years together with your spouse, you will realise that even bad years were better together than apart.